This works for me:
- Install plain debian 11, install proxmox
- Screenshot IPs of interface
- Clear all IP data from existing/default interface
- Create Linux bridge with IP info

Then open SSH and edit /etc/network/interfaces:
auto vmbr1
iface vmbr1 inet static
address 10.0.101.2
netmask 255.255.255.0
bridge_ports none
bridge_stp off
bridge_fd 0
post-up echo 1 > /proc/sys/net/ipv4/ip_forward
post-up iptables -t nat -A POSTROUTING -s '10.0.101.0/24' -o vmbr0 -j MASQUERADE
post-down iptables -t nat -D POSTROUTING -s '10.0.101.0/24' -o vmbr0 -j MASQUERADE
post-up iptables -t nat -A PREROUTING -i vmbr0 -p tcp --dport 2222 -j DNAT --to 10.0.101.5:22
post-down iptables -t nat -D PREROUTING -i vmbr0 -p tcp --dport 2222 -j DNAT --to 10.0.101.5:22
Then when creating a container:

All traffic is routed properly out of br1 to br0 (world).
I can connect to this host on :2222.